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Originally Posted by ncguynva
Understanding begins with the self and moves outward...I am learning about myself more.
I am getting very tired of repeating myself. I am NOT punishing her. I refuse to support the lifestyle that brought the marriage to an end. I was used before when she had the affairs, and she used me again when she went out with her neighbor. I would rather die over here in Iraq, have a bomb blow up in my face and burn in hell than to support that habit/lifestyle.
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Learning about ourselves stinks sometimes, doesn't it? I'm saying that only from a personal point of view. I 1000% do not blame you for refusing to support that kind of lifestyle. She cannot talk out of both sides of her mouth--if she wants to get back together and work it out, she has to understand what she did is wrong. Yes, she used you. In the most hurtful way to use a spouse. I pray for strength for you. Please do remember, that as much as you would like a solution to this, don't rush into any kind of decision. I know it feels like you have to have resolution....especially being where you are! (btw, God bless you again for being there and doing what you are doing)
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