It would be one thing, if she admitted to me that she was seeing guys when I was in Richmond. She said she wanted to tell me that she had either cheated or was seeing guys when she said she was visiting family (which i define as cheating, but not on the same level as actual sleeping with somebody else), but she was afraid I was going to do what I have done now (which is pull the money away). And I will admit, a part of me would have wanted to.