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Originally Posted by seeker1950
Sadly, the significant other did not! I'm not talking minor glitches here, but stalkers, con artists, and perverts who eventually revealed their true colors. This has left me feeling I have a very bad judgment of character, and best to leave the dating to others.
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Hi Patty,
I don't think its so much bad judgement on our part as it is they see a victium. Maybe not able to see the red flags but more importantly stay in this denile and confusion as to if we are seeing what we are seeing. Most people do not want to believe these things are possible. I don't and I certainly don't want to belive I'm with someone like that or attracted to them.
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I found a great deal of satisfaction and self-esteem in improving myself thru education. During this time, also, I learned, for the first time to be content alone. I still like men, but no longer think of the possibilities out there.
Sorry if I sound cynical. I'm not really. It's all a process of growth for me.
Love
Patty
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Im inspired by what you have done Patty , Don't give up . you have so much to offer . Start a little God box asking to have someone safe and loving to enter your life . You got plenty of time to wait because your not looking. Maybe a surprise will happen. You have an alblum of art work? One of the things I have thought about doing is teaching art. Just don't know if I'm good enough. to pursue that. And Im getting alot older.
Patricia