i should have been clearer. I thought my appt was at 3:30 but it was really at 3 and I didn't realize it until I finally found my appt card at 4. so i was frustrated because I couldn't remember the right time and also because my t is the only person I have to talk to and now I have to wait another week and a half. yes, I do have some pto but I work in accounting and there are so many deadlines, etc that I feel guilty for asking for time. I know I shouldn't but its another instance of it would be okay for anyone but me. why don't I think I'm worth it?