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Originally Posted by deliquesce
well, it seems like you have made up your mind, and it sounds like things are sorted between you and your fiance.
i would personally have a huge problem if the guy i was dating had a problem with me talking to clients. we wouldn't get to fiance stage if that was an issue between us.
but different strokes for different folks. i'm glad things have worked out.  |
Well, yes my mind is relatively made up lol. Things are (as far as I can tell) going nice and smoothly between the fiancee and I.
However, I'm not barring her from talking to clients. She is a woman and is able to be herself and talk with whom she likes. I am only asking that she keep a certain level of professionalism with her relationships of clients.
Taking personal calls and text messages on your offtime from a client is a friendship. That's all fine and well but it's not just wrong, imo.. it's illegal. Here anyway.
I am not a control monger. I just don't trust this guy. She's only met him a few months ago and already he's causing a problem with OUR relationship. Why? Because he has a crush on her and is calling her late nights and coming over just to chat for hours on end. She asked him if he thought she was hot. That's not appropriate for a caregiver to ask a client. Am I wrong?
I just don't want this to be an escalating issue and making him go away is the easiest solution.
Maybe I am being too pushy on the subject, but I don't like another man all up on my woman.