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Originally Posted by deliquesce
well... you mentioned earlier that you would have a problem with her going off to lunch with some guy she met at the mall. so - it's not the fact that you "only" want her to be professional with clients, it sounds like a lot more than "just" that. it sounds like you have a problem with her making new friendships with anyone she meets. to me, anyway.
i think your last sentence summed it up "i don't like another man all up on my woman". if your fiance is happy with that, then fine. if not - then maybe you need to reassess your views else she decides it's getting "too much" like last time you almost broke up.
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I see what you're saying. She's found many new friends through work and otherwise and they are good people. I have no issues with her finding and making new friends.
The issue I have on this matter is going on a "date" with someone when you're already in a committed relationship.
My fiancee would be very upset if I were to take some girl out to lunch without inviting her, regardless of why I took her out. That's just not something that a person does.
I even spoke with my older sister regarding this matter. She's been married for years and explained to me that if her husband took some other girl out to lunch that he met somewhere, and she only heard about it after the fact, they would have problems. I'm not the only one with this type of thinking.
If she met a man at the mall or wal-mart and thought they were cool, why wouldn't she invite me out along if they had suddenly arranged a lunch date? After all, I am the man she says she wants to spend the rest of her life with.