Kayle,

I am having similar issues. I have been with my husband for 10 years but we have been married for 5. I am so attracted to my husband that even know he makes my heart flutter. My sex drive has been decreased lately but I think that has alot to do with the meds. When this problem started, my husband took it personally. He would get angry and hurt. I beleive this hurt his self esteem because he thought it was because I wasnt attracted to him. I had to repeatedly explain that it had nothing to do with him. It was me. Really it was me. Over time, he has learned to deal with it better. I feel bad though because I feel like I'm making him suffer for my issues. We are getting back on track now and I hope to keep it going this way. My suggestion is to talk with your BF and explain your feelings, wants and needs. Being in a relationship is a two way street. He must respect you and your decisions. Good luck to you.