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I am female. I have a new T. I've seen him for 4 months now. I like him a lot. He is very different from anyone I've ever worked with before (I've been "in the system" for 25 years, so there have been a lot).
He is very irreverent, which I like. He says the F word, occasionally. He teases me, a bit. He will laugh at me, when any other T would have tipped toed around me. I love all that.
Speaking of 'love', he tells me that he loves me. Unconditionally. But, it does not feel "creepy" when he says it. For one thing he doesn't say it as some huge revelation. Just, like, "well I love ya no matter what, just be yourself! Tell me anything. Don't want ya to please me, I'll love ya whatever ya do" Along those lines. So, I'm OK with it.
But he also tells me I'm pretty. That was OK the first time. Then he said it again a month or so later. I just said thanks and moved on.
It didn't feel like he was coming on to me, but I can be kind of clueless about stuff like that and then all of a sudden I've got someone with a huge crush on me and I have no idea why I never saw it coming.
I don't want to bring it up. But if he says it one more time, I think I am going to have to address it. Or am I just being paranoid?
Maybe I'm just flattering myself. It's not that I'm all that great looking or anything--I'm average, I guess. He is not a very attractive man, so I'm sure if we were in the "real world" he would probably think he had a chance with me.
I just like him a lot and was really burned by my last T and really, really need someone I can trust right now. I really, really thought I could trust my last T. So, I feel like I really, really can't trust myself to know who I can trust!!
Does anyone have any thoughts?
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