Can anybody please tell me how she can show me while i am over here in the sandbox that she is not seeing guys?
Now here i go arguing the opposite side of the discussion- Even IF she can do that, the fact that she did it and didn't see anything wrong with it even after I told her to not hang out with guys i dont know, is still there. How do I know that she truely believes that it is wrong?
Now here's the other side- A few weeks ago, when we were talking (no fighting) she was asking me if I could handle the fact that she would have to go out and be social with clients and construction is mostly a male career. I told her yeah I would be, then she asked why she couldn't go out with guys now. I simply told her that I WOULD be ok with it, after she and I smoothed things over and trust came back into the relationship. But, for obvious reasons, I cant trust her with guys. Not just sleeping with them, but acting like a wife with them. Going to a batting cafe/put put, having a guy in the apartment from 11pm-3:30am, ect.