If she is going out with a mutual friend, someone you trust, maybe. Exactly! I told her back in August, that i wanted to meet her guy friends taht she was hanging out with. One reason was to ask them WTF, she is a married woman, you need to respect that. And two, so I could trust them or at least try to. But she didnt do that...she claimed she was trying to concentrate on me and her, not other guys.
Hell, I even said if i dont know the guy and you REALLY want to hang out with him, go with a friend that i trust, so the three of you go out.