i'm so sorry you all are going through this right now.  seems like the roof is caving in. it's not your fault tho cause you need help to get u stabililzed and then move ahead with any plans.
the only thought i had was for you to speak with a company that consolidates your debt...i forget the name..but they consolidate and contact your debtors to reduce the interest rate as well. then you only have one payment you make to them for all your creditors. i don't know if this would help make the situation easier or not.
wish i could help you more but hopefully there will be others that may have some better suggestions. i'll pray for you too.
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