(((sunrise))) I'm glad that you're dad gave you that healing moment. I don't understand his position though. It only seemed natural to me to have the baby next to us, to cuddle and love them. I wasn't even aware that there was a term for having the baby in bed with you.

I do know that my parents thought it was "lazy" of us to have the baby in bed with us. Another thing that used to drive them crazy was that until the kids started school, they were on our schedule. Hubby and I usually worked shift work. We stayed up until 2 am and slept until 10 in the morning. That was just the worst thing ever to them.