Well, the same problem has arrived again. I still haven't slept with him and I feel bad because I haven't. It seems that all of our friends are trying to get us to sleep together. He doesn't just want to have sex with me, he wants me to experience it with him. I know that he's depressed because I won't sleep with him. This is my second relationship and I'm 21 so I'm kind of young. I'm dating a younger guy. He gets mad because he thinks it's all an excuse that I won't sleep with him. He doesn't think I find him attractive or I even love him at all. He doesn't realize how much I've cried over this and have been thinking about it. I've become very self conscious about myself even though my bf tells me I'm beautiful to him. I'm thinking that might be one of my problems.