Thank you both for responding! I am going to check out the website suggestion in a few minutes.

Meeting others who can relate to the "wonderful" care the VA system is giving makes me feel validated and reassured I am not just reading more into some of the things my husband and I are finally noticing concerning his care.

To me it is a sad state when my husband gives 23 honorable years to the military and then to recieve crappy care that has done nothing to actually benifit him but instead causing him more problems.

Thats another discussion all in itself!