just to help you know who is doing what  , re your hubby-the psychiatrist writes the prescription and diagnosis, the psychologist does the therapy, the primary care doctor in the military writes orders for any regular medical tests,etc and prescriptions for non-mental health issues.
what part of the u.s, are u all living in? In the west coast they have some new facilities for ptsd, etc. via the military.
it sounds like you all have had some very bad experiences via VA. ever thought about writing your US senator and congressman? that'll get some much needed attention, usually. sounds like the VA near u all is severely lacking.
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