Hey Chaotic,

So glad you shared , when it comes to mental health issues , no I absolutely don't like to be talked about or have information spread around.

I can see your struggle with wanting full disclosure with your hubby because thats what real intimacy is all about . Good luck in finding a middle ground. Sounds to me like you have shared enough and its time to draw back on what you share and say hey . sorry but things are changing . I trusted you completely . I don't feel safe to do so any longer.

to you ,

Its good for me right now to be reading this issue , I need a little tune up myself.

Sitting at watersedge.

I belive your T may have been questioning about what your brothers therapist was suggesting he do. Now that he has "shared but not really" it does lead one to wonder about just whats so imortant that the T is pressing for disclosure. Plus he already made it clear you would not think highly of her if he did share.Well guess what . Your already starting to without knowing. The thought has been planted . If he is a victium of say physical violence ... something sunrise touched upon , he may need help from the family. or at least get to a shelter .

Even now, just your brother hinting at this , It has got you involved. worried. enmeshment .

its always informative to turn the tables , put yourself in A's shoes . If you were married and your hubby said that to his sister about you.

doesn't feel good does it.

Boy ..I DO need a tune up.....



I'm sorry . I hope all gets worked out . and I hope its not too serious for your bother .

Patricia