T mentioned I could consider allowing her to hold me (explained in a professional manner) because I have been missing a basic physical connection and don't have words for a lot of my feelings, etc. It sounds interesting and also scary. I don't know that I could do this with her after having spent such a long time strictly talking with several feet between us at all times.

What school of therapy allows this and if I were to seek out such a therapist in my community, how would I search for this?