Neither of us are good at communication. The minute I would bring up anything in regards to this problem, he will probably throw it in my face that at one time I enjoyed having sex all the time. Its like a lose-lose situation. He doesn't listen to reason.

I bought an audio tape set called "I'm Not in the Mood : What Every Woman Should Know about Improving Her Libido ", it is suppose to describe why women lose their drive. Hopefully it has some good thoughts that I can get him to hear. This may make him understand where I am coming from.

The worst part is that I feel I shouldn't have this problem because of my age, but this audio set states that in your 20's is when this starts to happen. I'll have to let you all know how it turns out.