he doesnt mean it like that. we both just see our lives going in different directions. he said thats why he told me that he "isnt in that place" with me right now is bc he knows that we have different aspirations in life and they will most likely take us to different places.

i was kinda going that direction too. just move on. plus i know that we already have this awesome friendship and we havent really tested the relationship waters that much. i think if we went for it and ended up being better friends than girlfriend/boyfriend and we lost that friendship i would be devastated. i guess i just have to talk to him and hope he feels the same way which it seems like he would.

thanks guys.