I am sorry that you are feeling so hurt, Veggiegurl... People can be so insensitive and cruel, but the cruelty people spew is usually more about them than you, so try to hang in there, OK? I've been where you are, and it IS extremely painful, but they don't matter in the long run... Come here and talk to us often, OK? Warmest regards, Peanut

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