Thanks ___zh for your post also. Your right sometimes we just need to do what is best for us at times. Tomorrow he leaves ..well leaves here and it will get better. Luckily I am very busy with work and I get home late, plus now others are here visiting with him......I have been polite but I have reached my limit which was just about when I saw him! Good point about these type of things that come out of no where too.

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