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Guess I should start listening more closely- if he's saying the same things Pat is!!

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Yep, Pat is very insightful Sounds like your T is also!!!

Mandy, you are worthy of "love, respect, and tenderness." I also struggle with viewing my parents through the eyes of a child, which blames myself for their wrongdoings. Logically, I know it wasn't my fault but there is so much shame and pain inside that tells me otherwise.

take care of you ((((Mandy)))