thanks
so i talked to him today and we both kinda said that, yeah itd be great if it worked out, but it not fair to either of us to wait on the other one or change plans. im really happy he said that bc i was afraid if i said it he would be heart broken (again). so were both going to date other people and if we end up together some day, great. if not well always be best friends. he also agreed with me that if we tried dating and ruined our friendship that would be awful.
so i guess im single now and on the prowl haha