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Originally Posted by deliquesce
it's ok if pdoc thinks i'm dirty but i don't want him to think bad things about my dad  . my dad was only doing what i asked. if i didnt ask, it would never have happened. |
deli, i don't believe your pdoc thinks of you as "dirty"... and for my 2 cents worth, i don't think you are either!!  people that are abused take on the ownership of the guilt when in fact they are not guilty of anythig! the abuser is the guilty party.
when you mentioned that thing about your dad..jme, but i agree with some of the other posts, he should have stood his parental ground,and not kissed you that way. i know you love your dad. that's a good thing. but jme, i think he should have not done that to you. it's a confusing message to a child...but don't hold back with your pdoc...he needs to know what went on in your life regardless. he won't be taking measure of your dad so much as he wants to help you get better. 
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