hannah you feel isolated for one because the bf is not being supportive. that's on him, not you! you can't be responsible for those conditions meaning how you got them. my reply to him would be "thank your lucky stars you didn't get some of these conditions to live with yourself!!!" jme, but i don't know if his attitude isn't so self centered that he doesn't even get it! i'd give him the "ole' heave ho" if he doesn't start helping you instead of beating you down. that's emotional abuse. no one has the right to do that to another humman being, imho.