thank you pegasus, and imapatient, and bellax .

i wanted to tell my pdoc about this, but now if you say it is wrong, then maybe i shouldn't tell because i dont want pdoc thinking my dad is a bad person. he is good and he tries his best. it's ok if pdoc thinks i'm dirty but i don't want him to think bad things about my dad . my dad was only doing what i asked. if i didnt ask, it would never have happened.