Thread: Maslow?
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Old Jan 20, 2009, 07:12 PM
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Originally Posted by ladymacabethadmunsen View Post
But- you said its you wife - and what - you never had sex?
I think its not natural, and no there is no ballance. Normal couples DO HAVE sex. What about having childred? she never mentioned it?
Oh, we've had plenty, but after 18 years together, her desire seems to have faded. We both agreed no children even before we got married.

I just want a woman to love me and show it without having to pay for false love. I know she loves me, but her way of showing it isn't what I feel like I want. We have discussed this, and she said that she was fine with being there for me when I "need" her (you know, that way), and yet she still resists my subtle initiations.

I agree there's more to this, but I am afraid of making a situation much worse than it really is.

I just want to get past Maslow 3 and move on.