I agree with RomanSunburn-don't be a back burner girl-you'll be waiting your whole life for someone to truly love you if you are the back burner girl. Also, don't just take what you can get-it never works out-I know from experience. The depression is a stick in your spokes, but keep getting up&looking at what you could have done differently&decide whether the person was worth your time in the first place. When you're depressed you have to be extra careful with your heart or you'll always be picking up the pieces-I know-my heart has about 5 million cracks in it from being too trusting and/or investing too much too soon.