hi miwako we have the same problem that i was thinking that i am hurting other people by not talking to them...i mean i dont know maybe i am retire already in talking...i dont know i found out that i have hard times dealing with people...i mean they are good and sometimes i feel bad knowing that i am hurting them and i am losing a wonderful people like them...i dont know either how to deal with this problem..i just wanna go out there and stay away from them so i cant hurt them because the more i hurt them the more i hate myself and i feel so stupid...thanks for sharing your experience...i thought i just the one who feels that way...
we are not bad...its just we are real and confused to our feelings...