"my T follows a psychoanalytic orientation, blank slate, no self-diclosing, big on transference. I I've told him to help me out but he is just letting me swim in the transferance. I'm drowing and my pleas for help are either not being heard or disregarded in the aim of healing"

I am terribly sorry I wish I had something to offer around these statements but I don't. It's just that it sounds kind of confusing to me but I'm not the one who needs to understand it anyway, right.

But, I did want to add to my previous email, that the few times my T sang, were usually at the end of a session, as in 'our quiet time'.

So, maybe I'm posting in the wrong place by posting under music/art therapy. Sorry, it just occurred to me last evening as I re-read the emails here.

Take care all.