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Originally Posted by Eggshells
I don't know how to describe it but sometimes I feel like a "man" when I'm around women. I want to protect them. I let them sit first. I open up doors for them. I want to take care of them.
I don't have much interest in men. I have fantasies about being with men and women. I have slept with men but no women. I would most likely sleep with a women if the opportunity came up with the right woman.
When certain women pass by me I feel sexually attracted to them. I do like guys sexually but never felt the zing one is supposed to feel when kissed or making out with them. I usually go along with what I'm supposed to do but not really feel it.
I wonder if it would be different with a woman.
Do you think I could be bi or straight up lesbian?
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I don't know how many men you've been with, but it's possible that they haven't really cared for you. When there is a real "connection" between two attracted people, the feeling, and the lovemaking can be spectacular (or so I seem to remember...so long ago...).
If you're at all attractive, guys just want to get in your pants. They'll do and say what it takes, but with little or no real feeling.
If you decide yu'd like to experiment with a woman, just remember that they might be more into it than you are. It isn't right to play with the emotions of others.
I sometimes wish I were a woman. I'd be a lesbian for sure.