downso, the only time that "struggling efforts at conflict resolution" is "stifled" is when they're potentionally causing more harm than good...period.

any member has agreed to the guidelines of this community when they come here because they obviously feel these same guidelines are put in place to help keep them safe. bottom line...we abide by these guidelines. there's not much more argument to that. you can work on your "conflict resolution" here as much as you want as long as you don't violate the community guidelines.

personally, i stand by what i said...any conflicts should take place in private as most ppl do NOT want personal conflict posted on a public forum...it's also about respect. working on them privately and respectfully is still working on them, right? there's your answer.

be safe,

kd