Hi everyone, sorry it took me so long to reply. Things are going a little bit better!

I moved Jeremy's bedtime up to eight, eight thirty. Somewheres between those times. And, I am thankful to say that its helping! He seems to go down now, wakes up around midnight for a quick bottle but then goes right back to sleep and sleeps right until eight thirty in the morning. So i think the culprit was he was going to bed too early.

I have read and retained all of your tips though, and will be putting them to work as well! I am slowly going to move his bedtime up until he seems to be sleeping through most of the night. I dont mind him getting up for a bottle as long as he is back to sleep right afterward.

Now to answer each of you:
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What kind of a cry is it?
Its a very tired cry when he does get up, and sometimes he even manages to get off the bed(which is just two matresses on the floor) and crawls to the doorway. I think he might be waking alone and getting frightened of the dark or being alone. Sometimes it is a hungry cry as well. During those times I try him on the bottle and sometimes he drinks it all, others he just has a little snack.

Will he let you hold him?
Yes, in fact thats often what he wants. He seems to want me to hold him and stay snuggled in bed with him, but I am a night owl and I cannot go to bed that early!

How are his bowel movements?
Like clockwork, the same time every day, and just the last month or so no constipation anymore.

Could his acid reflux be acting up again? Suffering from that myself I'm here to tell you there are times I would like to scream too.
It could be, but I dont think thats it because he doesnt spit up anymore at all.

Is the TV off? Room Dark? Make the environment such that the only thing to do is sleep.

Yep, he is in my room with all the lights off and no tv, and i keep the sound down in the living room so that it doesnt wake him.

Michah,

I do infact give him a dummy, and he loves it! its his special friend, we call it. Sometimes that is what wakes him, hes lost his soother and cant find it again and if i can get to him quick enough i can pop it back in and he will go back to sleep. I'll try the baby massage as well.

Kathryn,

Yeah, it isint very often that I get frustrated with him to the point of having to leave his side, but When I do he either stays in the darkened room for a minute or two or he goes in his excersaucer and I go out on the step and have a smoke That usually calms me down. haha.

there isint really anyone nearby, so I am pretty much on my own, my mother is even less able to tolerate him if hes cranky so I wont be calling her. But my aunt does take him for the night here and there so I can get a night of sleep.

Thanks for your replies!