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Old Jan 21, 2009, 09:29 PM
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Wow, I know that dealing with the family and friends of a partner is never easy. I cannot imagine taking the word of my friend over my partner. Was Karen feeling insecure or uncomfortable about your diagnosis before talking with her family and friends? Do you think it is possible that she was uncomfortable with you being so open about your disorder with her friends? And what field of work are C and N in that they knew based upon your medications what your disorder is?

You don't know what Karen told her friends, is it possible that she wanted to break off this relationship before they came to town and used her friends as an excuse? The "yes I will be careful" does not make sense unless these other women were aware of Karen's desire to end your relationship and were concerned about your reaction.
N is disabled, has PTSD, and injured on the job. N also lives in apartments for the disabled. I really appreciate your feedback. I suspect that Karen wants to end the relationship. I can only imagine that living with someone who doesn't work, struggles with that fact, takes medications to stay in balance, but becomes unglued at times can be challenging. Hurts my already wounded ego...
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Update: Living without any medications after 16 years do to mindfulness meditation and mindful psychotherapy. (Previously given many wrong diagnosis.) Currently in mindful psychotherapy. Pursuing neuro feedback to increase functioning of right side of the brain, as trauma causes deficits in the brain. Will update when I know the results!!!
Keep on researching to increase healing and happiness. Buddhism is my path.