I'm one of those annoying ppl that always waits for someone else to put activities, parties and get togethers planned. I'm always willing to help out, cook, set-up, clean-up, bring a gift. But I never ever initiate it. First of all I don't have ppl to my home, it is my sanctuary that I don't want invaded, except for a couple of very close ppl. And second, I'm a homebody and introvert by nature. TgrsPurr. xo