What I would do.....
Be honest and open about your problems, whilst any problem is kept quiet or a secret it is far more exciting for the office gossips, when issues and problems are open ones they invoke only sympathy those who are sympathetic towards you will fight the battle for you.
And the perpetrator of this will have no mud to throw, if anything you may well find that your working relationship with your colleges improves.
If you had had a leg missing how many people would of dared to send around a leaflet regarding paraplegics ......
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