Please use the legal system, and not revenge. I agree that that is the illness talking (been there, done that). This is even more important given that this scum (pardon me but that is the way is see him) has strong legal counsel. You could be opening up a whole can of worms, that might come back at you.. remember that in the eyes of the law 2 wrongs do not make a right.

Calming down and relaxing is a good thing to do, as my doc says cooler heads prevail. Remember that a lot of us here know how you feel, and we do care, and are here for you.