it sounds like you have made a good friend.  she may be cautious for reasons unknown to you at this time. in the future perhaps she may wish to talk about herself more and "let you in". i don't think you will "mess" this up...just be yourself and in time she may open up. obviously she values you. i'd say enjoy the journey and the time you all spend together. 
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The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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