(((Sunrise))) I can totally see how it is a difficult position to be in. Working so hard to finally find enough of yourself to stand up and tell your H that he can no longer verbally abuse and ignore you. That you deserve and demand respect. Only to have your daughter assume the behavior.

All I can offer is that it is important that you convey to her, respect for others is not something that is optional. I would bet that you are doing a much better job of teachering her how to love and value others than you realize. (((sunrise)))