I joined this group because i'm taking my life back. Tired of the mood swings, tired of feeling like i'm being dumped on, and ready for a change. I looked at myself the other day and i said "you're single, and don't have kids", now it's time to find "her" and get started. Hoping i can help some people in this group feel the same about themselves. My phrase for this week is "settle for nothing". Klauss (kl ow s) some people asked how to pronounse it.