You have to please yourself before you please others. T's shouldn't need to be pleased by their patients, or, more the case, they shouldn't be disappointed by their patient. T's shouldn’t have expectations that patients will do something for them. They might be pleased when a patient has done something--for appropriate reasons of being happy for you, but they shouldn't take it personally when a client acts in a way that she chooses. But it’s easy to want to please your T.
I vote for Not Irrational.
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