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Old Jan 24, 2009, 10:01 AM
Peppermint_Patty Peppermint_Patty is offline
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Hi Ocdchick !!!!

I just want to say:

I love being single myself. The freedom of being able to do what you want, when you want, is wonderful.

Being single is an opportunity to get in touch with yourself. It also gives you lots of time to pursue interests or hobbies that you might have put on the back burner because you were too busy maintaining a relationship.

Anyway... I am glad to hear that you are happy.

Some people do not like being single, but IMHO, it's because they are not comfortable being by themselves. They also don't have enough activities and quality friendships to keep their lives interesting and fun.

Anyway kudos to you for enjoying the single life!!!

Peppermint Patty

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Originally Posted by ocdchick View Post
Hi all-

didn't think I'd ever say that but I just have realized it lately-I love life w/o anyone else telling me what to eat, wear....course maybe a soulmate wouldn't do that.....

I dated a wonderful man who died unexpectedly (catastrophic heart attack) 3 years ago this coming 7/1. We dated 6 months, broke up and were friends for 4 years. He wanted to date again but he was not in the best of physical health and had his mental health issues(OCD, paranoid schizo). He was a sincere Christian man and I know he is at peace but I MISS HIM TERRIBLY! I have moved on, not met anyone else since but have a very full life with church,friends, etc.

I don't know what lies ahead but I'm living for the moment.

peace,

OCD chick