men confuse me a great deal. Girls have always been fed the story to keep their guard up if a guy pursues you. That all men only really want sex and that is their main goal. Guys go after women who are vulnerable....men are so difficult to understand...for me anyways....a lot...not all watch gross shows (I don't understand why they love them) what do guys really want in a relationship??...and how do you know if he loves you or even wants to marry you...I know tons of people ask this question...but...I would really appreciate hearing the truth from a guys perspective. I try not to annoy my bf and I try very hard to change. Sometimes I ask him the same question over and over...not to bug him just because I don't understand something...or I get grumpy for the stupidest things...I even admit they are stupid...I guess I just want to know that I am loved...I don't want to test him...I just want to know that he will love even the darkest parts of me...