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Originally Posted by DoggyBonz
so...even after reading everything I am wondering if you said something vulnerable about yourself to him or if you for better words tried to analyze things he was doing and became vulnerable that way.
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the former
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Maybe I am wrong in giving advice but I would let the dust settle a little. One of my very favorite people and I had an argument and I did not realize all the other things that were going on in his life. I thought it was about me and what I said and in part it was but it also had to do with him. Time was what we both needed and also being willing to change things in our friendship to be healthier.
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manytimes that is the case in relationships.
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I know this might sound wrong but...Sounds like your relationship given it is online is a little different but I just don't think that sending him emails all the time might be the best approach. Only you know but is it possible that you might be being obessive about him contacting you?
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i don't send him emails all the time and they were all quite brief. generally, am i obsessive about him contacting me? no, but during this conflict i was struggling.
i'm sure you meant well but i didn't find your post very helpful...