(((((((((((((( Candy )))))))))))))
You have always had the utmost respect from me I can tell you that much. I'm really sorry that this other person is so full of herself that she has stepped way out of line and was hurtful to you. I venture a guess that you are probably not the first to feel her biting tongue, nor will you be the last
In my eyes, the best thing I could come up with to say to her is this "You really have proved to me something I've always wondered about", and when she pipes up all wondering what it is that she has proven right to you (and I'm sure she would have a smug look on her face at this point), you tell her "That ignorance is truly blissful" and turn and walk away with your head held high and a spring in your step!
I hope you don't let one more day go by that she ruins anything for you hon.......don't give her that control over you, you deserve better!

sabby