I really need some help. My boyfriend of 2 years will not initiate any kind of sexual activity towards me at all. We have sex only when I initiate it. This is a huge problem for me. We have so much fun together we love being with one another and there is no doubt that he loves me but he won't touch me unless I touch him first. It makes me feel like he's not attracted to me or like he just doesn't want me in that way. We have had numerous conversations about it and he tells me that he's usually tired from working all day...he constantly tells me he loves me and I'm beautiful and that he wants no one but me but he won't touch me. I don't know what to do about it and its making me very unhappy...its almost like he's scared or nervous but the sex for both of us is so obviously great! He said that he's not used to a woman who wants to have sex as much as I do...he compares me to an 18 year old boy. I need to feel wanted by him and I don't know how else to explain it to him...I get so much attention from other men and I just want it from him...I cry when he's sleep which is usually as soon as he gets home from work and my self esteem is going going gone...he tells me that he will do better and nothing changes...I try to spice things up...I role play wear wigs but nothing seems to make him want me and he knows how I feel...I need some advice