Tough question, but I like Lenny's answer. I think he hits a great point about pursuing your own desires. What every guy wants really varies with the individual guy. Some are out for nothing more than pleasure, others seek women as "ornaments" (trophies) others are looking for a "second mother"

Be not discouraged though, there are some like me, who seek a true equal, a partner in the creation of something greater than the sum of us individually, a boon companion, who you can fully make yourself vulnerable too and know for certain they would never harm you. One that will accept all that you are, the good and the not so good. One that you know will always be true to you and will stand by you, in health, sickness, good times and hard times. I want to be a hero always in her eyes, and she a goddess in mine... it is beyond appearences, for age takes that from us all, it is about an inner spark you can see in a first glance glance, a feeling of warmth in their smile. and burning passion in their soul, igniting the fires of love and romance only she and I can share. I was lucky enough to find a good woman who can satisfy those needs.

sorry to wax on like that

TJ