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Originally Posted by bonaire
I love Lenny's list. Also,
Good self-esteem and love of self (not the same as self-centeredness).
Intelligence and ability to want to learn.
Sense of humor (everything is funny to some degree).
Someone who doesn't easily give up.
Much of this is based on up-bringing. So, if I would go back to my teen years - what I would do is try to spend as much time as I could with my gf's parents to learn their personalities as best as I could. I've found that almost all my girlfriends and my wife now have basically 'turned into their parents' to a large degree. This is something you can only cover-up so much - you will be like your parents so get used to it  |
thanks for your insight. This makes a lot of sense. But what if that girl honestly tries to find something she cares about...but she is lost in life and has no real direction. I've felt guilty for a long time about dating this one guy. He is obviously way above me...and I've told this to him many times. He's smart handsome and has top notch morals. He's 24 and I'm 19. I feel that I will enver be good enough for him...and that there are so many other women who deserve his love. I have no clue what I want to do with my life and to be honest...all I really want is to have babies. I am going to school right now...and I pay for tuition...I live on my own but my parents pay for rent and food. I just...don't really know what to do with myself...I'm scared to just give up school...because although I am not really interested in my studies...I am able to complete my studies...I dunno...I feel like there is something wrong with me...I'm not a girl who has any crazy high ambitions...yet I am with this guy who wants to be a doctor...i am definately not his equal
...I don't know really what I am