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Originally Posted by digdug
To answer your question here, I wouldn't sweat it if you're not as ambitious as your boyfriend.
My wife is an accountant and wants nothing more than a steady, reasonably well-paying job that she can stand, time to read books and watch movies, and time (when the time comes) to raise a family. I, on the other hand, recently went back to school, and am hyper-ambitious about succeeding in my chosen field. And we complement each other fantastically.
Two type-As in a relationship can end in disaster. The important thing is what you want out of life...and for your relationship, if your boyfriend loves you for who you are, then you shouldn't compare yourself to him. Few people fall in love with others who are exactly like them.
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thanks for this..I mean...I know all these women who want to do all these great things and I think it's wonderful. I feel I have the potential to do something great...but I'm too scared...and I don't feel I have the resiources to do it (money)...I don't mind giving support to a man who wants to do great things...I would stand by his side and make him feel loved...that is what I feel i have to offer. I was also thinking about doing charity work...or just finding out what I really like. I didn't have certain opportunities or a big fmaily growing up....I was often left on my own...growing up an only child. it was hard for me to make friends...and I just feel I don't even know what I want. All I know is that I want someone to love me and understand this....I feel I can do anything if I have the love of a husband