I told my old T when I couldnt tell anyone else and he helped me - my new T gave me some things to do instead of cutting - distraction techniques - I would tell your T - you are obviously under a lot of stress and your T can help with that.

As to your nephew - I can relate to that - my sister rang me crying and I had nothing I could give her - I tried but I wasnt the Me I used to be - and that hurt and I beat myself up about it - dont make the same mistake - things have happened to make you the way you are and you are seeing a T to get help - you can only do what you can do - tell your T about what happened and can you maybe buy your nephew a little gift to say sorry? ..... just a thought.

I hope your test comes out ok P7